My partner and I lost our first pregnancy four months ago and we've been grieving so differently that I sometimes feel like I'm mourning alone while living with someone who's also in pain. We both feel guilty about how we're handling it and how we're not showing up for each other the way we thought we would.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are learning that love doesn't automatically create compatible grief, and that guilt about 'doing loss wrong' can create more distance than the loss itself.
“Where Are You with Grief and guilt?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.