My partner and I moved in together six months ago and we're both realizing we have completely different ways of handling conflict - they want to talk everything out immediately and I need time to process first. Every disagreement becomes a meta-fight about how to fight, and we're both getting exhausted trying to change for each other.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are trying to love each other in languages the other doesn't speak.
“Where Are You with Vulnerability and the Courage to Open?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.