My partner cheated on me two years ago and we've been working to rebuild, but I still find myself bringing it up during fights and I can see how exhausted they are by my inability to fully forgive, and I don't know if I'm holding onto the hurt because I need more time or because part of me doesn't want to let them off the hook.
More people experience this than they realize.
The wounded partner oscillates between genuine healing and weaponizing their pain, while both people navigate the murky territory between accountability and grace.
“Where Are You with Forgiveness in intimate relationships?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.