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Scenario

When couples struggle with what complete forgiveness actually means after betrayal

My partner had an affair two years ago and we've been working through it, but I can feel myself getting stuck between wanting to forgive completely and needing them to understand that some things still hurt. We're both exhausted from walking on eggshells around what forgiveness is supposed to look like.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're discovering that forgiveness isn't a destination but a practice that requires both people to hold space for the messy middle ground between hurt and healing.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiveness in Love — What It Takes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.