My partner had an affair two years ago and we've been working through it, but I can feel myself getting stuck between wanting to forgive completely and needing them to understand that some things still hurt. We're both exhausted from walking on eggshells around what forgiveness is supposed to look like.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're discovering that forgiveness isn't a destination but a practice that requires both people to hold space for the messy middle ground between hurt and healing.
“Where Are You with Forgiveness in Love — What It Takes?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.