My partner was diagnosed with MS two years ago and we've gotten into this pattern where I anticipate their needs before they ask and they've started pulling away from me, saying I treat them like they're fragile, but I'm terrified of doing too little. We love each other but we're both walking on eggshells and I don't know how to find our way back to just being us.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love is being renegotiated around new realities of embodiment, and both people are afraid of getting care wrong.
“Where Are You with Love and disability?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.