My sister and I are both trying to honor what our dad would have wanted for the family land, but she thinks that means preserving it exactly as he left it while I think it means making it financially sustainable for the next generation. We're not just arguing about property - we're arguing about what it means to be dutiful daughters.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love for the same person and the same heritage is expressing itself in ways that seem fundamentally incompatible.
“Where Are You with Confucian Partnership Ethics — Duty and Love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.