My sister and I both became caregivers for our mom after her stroke, but we have completely different ideas about what she needs and we're starting to resent each other more than we're helping her. Every conversation about mom's care turns into relitigating who has sacrificed more and who really understands what she would want.
More people experience this than they realize.
The weight of shared responsibility is revealing fundamental differences in values and coping that threaten both the care being given and the relationship itself.
“Where Are You with Courtly Love & Idealization?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.