My sister and I both consider Sarah our best friend, and lately it feels like we're competing for her attention in ways that are making me hate myself. We grew up sharing everything, but watching her choose my sister's dinner invitation over mine last week made me realize that some kinds of love feel like scarcity even when they shouldn't.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear that love is finite can turn friendship into a zero-sum game, corrupting both the sibling relationship and the friendship itself.
“Where Are You with Friendship as love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.