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Scenario

How siblings navigate loving someone who caused them both pain

My sister and I both loved our mom deeply but she was also cruel to both of us in different ways, and now that she's been gone a year we can't talk about her without one of us defending her and the other getting angry, like we're grieving completely different people.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The same person can leave behind completely different griefs, making shared love feel impossible.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What we learn from grief about love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.