My sister and I both loved our mom deeply but she's thrown herself into organizing grief support events in our town while I can barely get myself to one group meeting a month and I feel judged for not being as 'productive' in my grief as she is. We used to be so close but now every conversation feels like she's trying to fix my grieving or recruit me for something.
More people experience this than they realize.
Sometimes the medicine that saves one person becomes the measuring stick that wounds another.
“Where Are You with Grief groups and communities?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.