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Scenario

When siblings disagree about honoring a parent's final wishes

My sister and I both promised our dying father we'd take care of our mother, but we have completely different ideas about what that means and every conversation about it turns into a fight about who loved him more.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Grief can transform shared love into competing claims of devotion.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Philia — deep friendship as love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.