My sister and I both survived the car accident that killed our brother three years ago, and we've each built something meaningful from that pain — she started a nonprofit, I became a grief counselor — but we can't seem to connect about it without competing over who's honoring his memory 'better.' We love each other and we're both doing good work, but there's this underlying tension about whose growth is more legitimate.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who survived the same loss are struggling to honor each other's healing paths without letting comparison poison their bond.
“Where Are You with Post-traumatic growth — what can grow in the soil of loss?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.