My sister and I have both inherited this family pattern of loving people by trying to fix or rescue them, and it's destroying our marriages in different ways but we can't seem to help each other break the cycle. When we talk about our relationships, we end up either competing about who has it worse or trying to fix each other, which is exactly the problem.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared wounds can become shared blindness when the very attempt to help recreates the original pattern.
“Where Are You with Patterns You Bring to Love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.