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Scenario

When siblings disagree about how to honor a deceased family member

My sister and I have completely different ideas about what our brother's death meant and what we're supposed to do now — she thinks we need to carry on his mission and I think we need to let ourselves just be broken for a while — and we can't even talk about the memorial without it becoming a fight about who loved him 'right'.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their different ways of processing loss feel like betrayals of each other's love for the person who died.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Meaning-making after devastating loss?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.