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When parent-teen relationships lose warmth despite mutual love

My teenage daughter and I used to be close but now every conversation feels like I'm either lecturing her or walking on eggshells, and I can see her pulling away but I don't know how to bridge this gap without compromising my role as her parent. We're both frustrated and missing each other.

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The developmental necessity of adolescent separation can leave both parent and child grieving their former closeness while struggling to find new ways to remain connected.

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