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When parents struggle to let go without losing connection

My teenage daughter and I used to be close but this past year she's been pulling away in ways that feel normal for her age but devastating for me. My husband says I need to give her space but I'm terrified that if I step back now we'll lose each other permanently.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent is caught between honoring their child's developmental needs and their own need for continued closeness.

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