My three closest college friends and I used to see each other constantly, but now that we're all in different cities with different life pressures, our group chat feels performative and our visits feel forced, and none of us wants to admit that maintaining this friendship takes work we're not sure how to do.
More people experience this than they realize.
Some bonds are forged in specific seasons of life, and learning to love each other across new seasons requires skills that deep history alone cannot provide.
“Where Are You with Climate grief and ecological mourning?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.