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Scenario

When family members discover they loved different versions of the same person

My three cousins and I have been the keepers of our grandmother's stories since she passed, but we're starting to realize that the version of her we each loved and remember is so different that we're essentially grieving different people, and it's making family gatherings tense.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Individual relationships with the deceased create multiple, sometimes conflicting legacies that challenge the possibility of unified family mourning.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What we learn from grief about love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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