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Scenario

When couples both work on self-love but lose their connection to each other

My wife and I are both people-pleasers who've been working on loving ourselves more, but now we're both so focused on not losing ourselves that we've stopped really showing up for each other. We wanted to break our codependent patterns but instead we've swung so far toward independence that we feel like roommates.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The pendulum swing from codependence to self-love can sometimes overshoot into disconnection.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Self-Love as the Foundation of Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.