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Scenario

When couples try to reclaim individual identity after romantic merger

My wife and I are realizing that we both sacrificed friendships and individual interests to focus on 'us' early in our relationship, and now we're trying to get those parts of ourselves back but feeling guilty like it means we love each other less.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that the romantic ideal of becoming 'one' actually diminished them both, but they don't know how to individuate without threatening their bond.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Western Romantic Love Myth?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.