My wife and I both lost our dad last month and we're grieving completely differently - she wants to talk about memories and I just want quiet. But when her friends call, they keep asking me how I'm 'holding up' and expecting me to perform being okay.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people mourning the same person are being forced into incompatible expressions of grief by well-meaning others.
“Where Are You with What not to say to a grieving person?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.