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Scenario

When couples develop conflicting coping mechanisms during fertility treatment

My wife and I have been doing IVF for eighteen months and we've developed completely different coping styles - she researches everything obsessively and I've started avoiding all fertility-related conversations. We're both exhausted but we're exhausted in opposite directions and it's making us feel like strangers.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are protecting themselves from the same pain in ways that inadvertently protect them from each other.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The grief of infertility?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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