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Scenario

When long-term couples lose romantic connection

My wife and I have been married for twelve years and we're good at being parents and good at running a household but somewhere along the way we stopped being lovers and started being roommates. We both feel it but neither of us knows how to find our way back without it feeling forced or awkward.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You've become so efficient at sharing life that you've forgotten how to desire each other within it.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Hesed — Hebrew covenantal loving-kindness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.