My wife and I have been trying to get pregnant for two years and every month when it doesn't happen, we handle the disappointment completely differently — she wants to talk through every detail and I need space to process alone. We're both hurting but we keep missing each other in our grief.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are mourning the same loss but their different ways of processing are isolating them from each other when they most need connection.
“Where Are You with African Ubuntu Love and Kinship?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.