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Scenario

When couples feel pressured to surpass their parents' marriage

My wife and I realize we've been unconsciously trying to have the marriage my parents never could, but the pressure of being 'better than them' is making us afraid to admit when we're struggling. We end up pretending everything is fine when it isn't because acknowledging problems feels like failing at the one thing we promised ourselves we'd do differently.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire to transcend inherited patterns can create its own form of relationship prison.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Your Parents' Relationship and How It Shaped Yours?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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