My wife and I started practicing together because we wanted to love without possessiveness, but now we're both afraid to need each other at all. We've swung so far toward non-attachment that we're not sure if we're being spiritual or just emotionally distant.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear of attachment creates a new form of grasping — this time to the idea of non-attachment.
“Where Are You with The mystic's love — loving without an object?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.