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Scenario

When family guilt complicates collective grieving after child loss

Our 12-year-old died in an accident that my brother feels responsible for, and our whole extended family is walking on eggshells around his guilt while I'm drowning in my own grief. No one knows how to support him without minimizing our loss, or comfort us without adding to his pain, and we're all falling apart in isolation.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Guilt and grief become strange companions, each demanding different forms of care that seem to cancel each other out.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The death of a child — the unnatural loss?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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