Our family has always used the love languages as a way to understand each other better, but I'm starting to realize that maybe we've used them to excuse some people's inability to show up in ways that actually matter — like my brother saying he's just 'not a words person' when what I really need is for him to acknowledge what happened between us.
More people experience this than they realize.
The languages of love become a way to rationalize emotional unavailability rather than bridge it.
“Where Are You with The love languages — examined critically?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.