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Scenario

When families disagree on how to honor a deceased child

Our family is fracturing over how to honor our 8-year-old daughter who died from cancer - my parents want a memorial garden while my sister thinks we should donate to research, and I'm caught between their competing visions of how to keep her memory alive. Everyone's love for her is turning into arguments about the 'right' way to grieve, and it's tearing us apart when we need each other most.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love takes many forms, but when grief demands a single expression, the diversity of devotion becomes a source of division.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The death of a child — the unnatural loss?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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