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Scenario

When friend groups fracture after losing someone central to the circle

Our friend group has been together since college and last year we lost Maya to cancer and now we're all scattered in our grief — some of us want to keep talking about her, others want to move forward, and the group dynamic feels broken in a way that makes losing her feel like we're losing each other too. We don't know how to hold space for everyone's different relationships with her memory.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A community bound by shared love is discovering that shared loss doesn't automatically create shared healing.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What grief reveals about what matters?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.