Our friend group has been together since college and last year we lost Maya to cancer and now we're all scattered in our grief — some of us want to keep talking about her, others want to move forward, and the group dynamic feels broken in a way that makes losing her feel like we're losing each other too. We don't know how to hold space for everyone's different relationships with her memory.
More people experience this than they realize.
A community bound by shared love is discovering that shared loss doesn't automatically create shared healing.
“Where Are You with What grief reveals about what matters?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.