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Scenario

When friend groups disagree on how to help someone struggling

Our friend group has one person who's been struggling with addiction and we all want to help but we're completely divided on what that looks like—some think we should stage an intervention, others think we should just be supportive, and some want to step back entirely. The disagreement is tearing apart our friendships with each other too.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love for one person has revealed irreconcilable differences in how care should be expressed, fracturing the very community that wanted to provide it.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Courtly Love & Idealization?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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