Our friend group used to gather every year to remember Jake, but twenty years later some of us want to celebrate his life differently while others feel like any change dishonors his memory, and these conversations have become tense in ways that would break Jake's heart. We're grieving not just him anymore but also who we used to be together.
More people experience this than they realize.
When shared loss becomes the foundation of connection, changing how you honor that loss can feel like losing each other all over again.
“Where Are You with How grief changes over years and decades?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.