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Scenario

When friends realize they're both chasing an impossible standard of romantic passion

We're both divorced and trying to date again, but we keep comparing every new person to some impossible standard of passion and certainty that we think we're supposed to feel. We're wondering if we're missing out on real connections because we're waiting for a lightning bolt that might not exist.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their expectations about how love should feel are preventing them from recognizing how love actually develops.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Western Romantic Love Myth?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.