We've been best friends for fifteen years and I'm realizing I've been the one who always reaches out, always plans things, always asks how they're doing. I'm exhausted but I also don't know who we are if I stop being the one who holds us together.
More people experience this than they realize.
The architecture of a relationship can become so established that changing it feels like losing the relationship itself.
“Where Are You with Cumulative grief — multiple losses?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.