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Scenario

When friends' intimate confessions create uncomfortable dynamics

We've been best friends for fifteen years and she's been telling me about her sexless marriage for three of them, but lately I find myself feeling angry at her husband and avoiding couple events because I know too much. I want to be there for her but it's changing how I see their whole relationship and I don't know how to handle that.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Deep knowledge of a friend's private struggles can create an unwanted burden of secret-keeping that affects all shared relationships.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexlessness in Relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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