Every time I start to fall for someone I sabotage it by picking fights or becoming distant, and I can feel myself doing it but I cannot seem to stop.
More people experience this than they realize.
The unconscious mind protects against anticipated abandonment by orchestrating the very rejection it fears.
“Where Are You with Falling in love — the neuroscience and the phenomenology?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.