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Scenario

How to break the pattern of self-sabotage in love

Every time I start to fall for someone I sabotage it by picking fights or becoming distant, and I can feel myself doing it but I cannot seem to stop.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The unconscious mind protects against anticipated abandonment by orchestrating the very rejection it fears.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Falling in love — the neuroscience and the phenomenology?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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