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Scenario

How to mourn when traditional family structures exclude your love

I am gay and my partner of eight years died, but our traditional mourning ceremonies only recognize wives and blood relatives, so I have to grieve alone while his family performs the rituals.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Ancient customs can render modern forms of love invisible in moments of deepest need.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African grief traditions — communal mourning?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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