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Scenario

When caregiving feels like burden instead of blessing

I am my grandmother's primary caregiver and everyone keeps telling me to cherish this time but I am exhausted and resentful and feel guilty for not being more grateful.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The myth of noble caregiving collides with the brutal reality that love sometimes feels like drowning.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Anticipatory grief — losing someone before they die?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.