I can only feel attracted to people who are already taken because the possibility of having them would ruin the fantasy.
More people experience this than they realize.
Desire has been conditioned to require impossibility, making mutual love feel dangerous rather than desirable.
“Where Are You with Courtly Love & Idealization?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.