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Scenario

How to Stop Doing Things Your Adult Children Should Do

I drive forty minutes each way to do my adult daughter's laundry every week because she says she's too overwhelmed to learn how to use the machines.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Rescuing others from ordinary difficulties robs them of the competence that builds self-respect.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

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