I earn significantly more than my boyfriend and he has started making comments about expensive things I buy for myself, saying I am being selfish when we have shared goals.
More people experience this than they realize.
Money becomes a proxy for control when economic inequality within a partnership generates moral claims on individual choices.
“Where Are You with Confucian Partnership Ethics — Duty and Love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.