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Scenario

Why relief after an abusive parent's death feels complicated

I feel guilty that I am relieved my abusive father is dead, like I am not allowed to grieve the father I wish I had because I am glad he cannot hurt anyone anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

We can simultaneously mourn what never was while feeling grateful for the end of what was.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and guilt?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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