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Scenario

Why You Feel More Attracted When Your Partner Is Distant

I feel most attracted to my wife when she is slightly distant or busy with other things and I worry this means I do not actually want real intimacy.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The dopamine reward system can become conditioned to pursue what feels scarce rather than appreciate what is consistently available.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The Neuroscience of Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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