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Scenario

When your partner hides financial decisions about their ex

I found out my husband has been sending money to his ex-wife beyond their agreed child support for two years without telling me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Past loyalties create present betrayals when secrecy becomes the bridge between competing obligations.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian Partnership Ethics — Duty and Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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