I have a friend who only contacts me when they need something and I keep answering because I am afraid of losing the friendship entirely.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear of abandonment can trap us in relationships where we accept scraps of attention rather than demand genuine reciprocity.
“Where Are You with Philia — deep friendship as love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.