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Scenario

When you're afraid to ask for reciprocity in a long-distance relationship

I have been commuting four hours every weekend to see my girlfriend for eight months and I am exhausted but afraid that if I ask her to visit me more often she will think I do not care enough.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of being seen as insufficient is driving self-sacrifice to an unsustainable degree.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-Distance Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.