I have been doing all the emotional labor in our relationship for three years and when I finally said something my partner said they did not realize I was keeping score.
More people experience this than they realize.
The invisibility of care work becomes a source of deep injustice when the one who provides it is told their awareness of the imbalance is the problem.
“Where Are You with Confucian Partnership Ethics — Duty and Love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.