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Scenario

How to handle unexpected romantic feelings when you're committed

I have been faithful to my husband for twenty years but I am having intense feelings for a coworker and I do not know how to make them stop.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart's capacity for multiple attachments challenges the promise of exclusive devotion in ways that reveal both human frailty and the courage required for true fidelity.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian Partnership Ethics — Duty and Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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