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Scenario

How to navigate resentment when roles shift in a relationship

I have been the primary breadwinner for eight years while my husband pursued his art, and now that his work is finally selling I feel resentful that he wants to make all the money decisions.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Years of sacrifice create an unspoken ledger that threatens to poison the very success it helped create.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian Partnership Ethics — Duty and Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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