Periagoge
Scenario

When accepting help makes you feel like you're losing yourself

I have rheumatoid arthritis and some mornings I cannot open jars or button my shirts and my husband does these things without being asked but I feel like I am disappearing.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Necessary dependence can erode sense of self even when care is offered with love.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and disability?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.